|Do not behave strictly|
Often the children do not do the same work but they do the same thing. Parents are often worried about their behavior, and they begin to appear strictly with them. Experts say that this attitude of the parents makes the children vulgar. Many times parents do not understand the problem of their grown children. As a result, the gap between the children and the parents comes into contact. They start to oppose everything. This change is not sudden in a teenaged child, but parents do not understand this and they start behaving vigorously with them. The correct way is that parents work with patience so that children listen and act on your point.
Do not compete:
Many times parents make competition among their own children. Begin to compare each other. Sometimes kids compete in early homework, and sometimes in quick food items. Your behavior causes inferiority in the child and you do not even know. Him/Her self-confidence starts decreasing, so the child starts cutting out from outside and talking to people.
Give quality time:
|Give quality time|
Whether you are a job or a businessman, spending time with children is very important. Children also want them to get more and more congruent with their parents. Even when this does not happen, children become irritable.
View TV with your child:
Children are small or big, parents want to sit together with children watching TV. From this, you will be able to know what the child is learning well from the TV. What things the child is getting updated with. Let them see the same program, which is enlightening.
Involve children in your conversation too. Talk to them about the school and ask about the activities there. As the radius of the dialogue increases, the more children openly talk to you about every issue. Because many children who are teenagers cannot tell about the hormonal changes happening inside them. They seem to be hesitant. It is important that you tell them some things related to it beforehand so that they can not wander. Many times when children do not get the answers related to them, they start taking the help of the internet, television, and friends, which is very dangerous. This allows the child to go into depression and frustration does not help the child’s mental and physical development properly. Therefore, listen to their problems and help solve them. If the counselor is needed, then get help too.
Understand your child:
Try to know what your child wants, what things he is interested in. What does the child in the neighborhood do and what is not, more important than what your child wants? Promote the kind of things he/she is interested in.